Thursday, December 16, 2010

My kid's don't want to visit their dad/mom!!

Any good divorce attorney will tell you, "For heavens sake, whatever you do don't tell the judge your kids don't want to visit their father/mother!" I have said these words to clients countless times, and I always get the same response, "but its true, they don't want to go!!" In my career I have brought hundreds of enforcement actions seeking to put one parent in jail for failing to allow the other parent to pick up the children during their visitation. In almost every instance I here the same response, regarding how the children don't want to go visit the other parent. There are numerous reasons why a child might not want to go to the other parent's house for visitation, and nearly all of them have to do with the way the primary parent treats the child. Maybe the primary parent drills them with questions when they get back, or maybe the primary parent talks bad about the visiting parent all the time, or it could be as simply as the primary parent's bad attitude as it gets closer to visitation time. The bottom line is its usually not the child that doesn't want to go, its usually the primary parent that doesn't want the child to go.

Nothing upsets a judge more than a parent who says their child doesn't want to go, and if they don't want to go, I can't make them. Really!! So if your 10 year old says, I don't want to go to school anymore, or says I don't want to clean up my room, are you going to say, oh well, if he doesn't want to, I can't make him. I don't think so. Again the bottom line is, its not the child that doesn't want to go, its the primary parent.

So what do judges expect of the parent. Most judges expect the parent to put on a smile and say to the child in a happy voice, "Lucky you, its time to go to your dad's (or mother's) house, your going to have a great time!" To some this may sound rediculous, but judge's expect parent's to be the grown up and act like the grown up. And if they can't, well that parent may just spend some time in the custody of the county jail, or worse the judge may decide that parent isn't the right person to be the primary parent.

Of course all this begs the question, so when does a child get to decide not to go to the other parent's for visitation. The short answer is when the child is no longer considered a child, which is when the child turns 18. However, the Court also understands that as a child gets older (16 or 17) the child will have other obligations, such as jobs, extracuricular activities, social events etc. At this point its best if both parents can communicate and learn to work around these events so that both parents can participate and still have time to see the child. If they can't then the Court will make provisions that neither parent will like. I once had a case where the child was 16 years of age and very active. She had a part time job, was active in dance and competition cheerleding. My client had issues because everytime he tried to see his daughter the mother had an excuse of why the child couldn't come. At the hearing the judge ordered that visitation would be as agreed between the father and the daughter. In other words mother was cut out of the decision making all together. This did not sit well with the mother, and the father was not happy because it did not have any specific times for visitation.

In the end, when its time for the child to go to the other parent, remember, the child's attitude will usually reflect that of the primary parent. So if the primary parent has a good attitude about the child going to the other parent's house, the child will too. But its not all about the primary parent, the parent picking up the child needs to have a good attitude as well. If the parent doing the visitation arrives with a bad attitude (usually because of having to see or deal with the other parent) the child will sense this and think its because that parent doesn't want to see the child. So if you are the parent excercising visitation, forget about the other parent, put on a happy face and show excitement about getting to see your child. Life will be so much better and save you from having to spend money on attorneys and legal fees.

29 comments:

  1. My daughter is 12 and will be starting middle school next year. She said she's not going to tell her dad about things she wants to try out for because she knows he'll say no, but I don't keep things from him. I tell her that he loves her and wants to see her, but the fact that she hasn't been able to do some group activities due to them being on the weekends has upset her. When she goes over there she does nothing but give attitude. He lives 3 hours away and she wants him to either move closer or stop picking her up. She says, "If he really loves me and wants to be a part of my life, then he'll move closer." I don't know what else to tell her.

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  2. I just have to say your article was right on point with our situation. Just when I was starting to doubt ourselves and felt like giving up I read your article and it made me feel relief that we are doing what needs to be done. My husband's ex-wife is completley manipulating the kids and stressing them out when its time to get them to the point they are telling us they dont want to come. His some says he loves us but he doesnt want to come because of the drama. It is much easier for them to do what their mother says because they see her everyday.

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  3. As her mom, YOU need to be the bigger person. Do the right thing and explain to your child that her time with dad is priceless. Little girls, and teenage girls too, need time with their father, regardless of how "quality" she thinks it is now, she will appreciate later that he gave her that effort. Theres no reason other than abuse or criminal behavior to encourage your daughter to refuse her visit with dad.

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  4. If I were the primary parent of the child, I would let him/her visit his/her father if my child wants to. The decision should always come from the child - you can't force them nor restrain them. It's also better to talk him/her about the current situation and ask him/her to decide whether he/she still wants to go see him.



    Dana Samuelson

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  5. I am the custodial parent, 9 months out of an 8 year abusive relationship. The judge we got wagged his finger and gave their father visitation every other weekend, against my request for supervised visits. After being shown proof of multiple accounts of physical, emotional and mental abuse to myself and the children. Guess what, he's still doing it! He's undergoing court ordered anger managment and taking nothing out of it. He doesnt see what he is doing as being wrong. Therefore, not going to change.
    My kids Dont Want To Go! Something happens to them every weekend visit. I'm assuming that most of you want to know what that is. So you can judge for yourselves whether they should go through it or not. I'm the parent, I say no.
    I have a long list of my kids volunteered information. After their visits, I dont interrogate them or coach them or brainwash them. He does all that to them on his time. My kids come to me and purge themselves of these awful accounts. And it brings back memories. But now i'm not there to protect them. ... Well, even when I was there I was just another object to be mistreated and controlled. There was little to nothing I could do. He's awful and mentally unbalanced! Yes, I tried to leave several times. Yes, I would come back or stay because he would threaten to kill me or the kids or himself or take the money or the house, etc, etc, etc. Until I finally didnt care about any of his usual threats, I only cared about myself and my kids and stayed gone!
    Now I find it hard to believe that the court is ordering me to force my children to endure all of it, still! Why? Because that judge is a fool. Really, their father admitted to a few of the physical abuse acts saying "yes, he thinks its ok to kick and choke children" and the judge thinks anger management alone will fix him?! It really is a hard pill to swallow and I really want to find a way to make that judge and my soon to be ex take responsible and the appropriate consequences for doing/allowing these things to happen to my children. AND I cant believe how many people agree that the children should continue to be around their father!?! Or that some of you are cheering for the abusive fathers here.
    I'm no victim, Not Any More! Regardless of what happens, I dont succumb to the cycles anymore. I fight. I got out and all I wanted was to heal, be the parent I know I can be and for the courts to protect us so that those things could happen peacefully and uninterfered. So far its a struggle to single parent but then throw in having to/not being able to protect my children from their father. Healing is almost impossible, its an ongoing battle because the abuse hasnt stopped. The insane text messages, which I dont respond to, keep coming. The court, did not care to protect us. More specifically, the children.
    Anger, is an emotion, not a behavior. It lets us know that something wrong is happening to us and gives us the boost we need, to assert boundaries to protect ourselves. ... I am angry.

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  6. I read this article and it does make sense. However, in my case I want my children to go to their dads and I love it when they do, he is their father and there is nothing that can take that away. When I get messages from my 13 year old or when I get phone calls of her sobbing her eyes out saying that her dad don't love her or show that he loves her kills me. She sent me a message last night that ripped my heart out. She said "Mommy, I wish dad loves me like so and so. Dad never does anything with us." My response to her was that her dad does love her and her sister very much, to give him time and he will come around, that he doesn't really know you that well. (During my marriage he wasn't around much I did everything with the kids)She responded "But he is my dad. Mommy it hurts so mch when I know that he would rather hang out with his friends and get drunk than spend any time with us." (this is the way it was for the last 4 years of my marriageand 1 1/2 year later he hasn't changed)She point blank told me that she didn't care if she ever got to see her bestfriend again she didn't want to go back to her dads house. I don't know what to do I am at a loss with all of this. When my oldest daughter tries to tell him how she feels he ends up yelling at her and blames me for her feelings. When I try to talk to him about what how they feel he says that I am trying to come in between his relationship with his girls (13 and 9). It is not the case I try everything I can talking him up to the girls (because he makes promises to do things with them and breaks his promise)and I reassure them that their dad loves them. Please help I need some advice. My husband feels really about all of this and he also does not know what to do.

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  23. Hello To The World At Large,
    I am Miss Jennifer.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS Dr OBEYED ORACLE TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : drobeyedspellcaster@gmail.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost and also he caster all spell you want, he can help you get a child if you have no child he will help you in anything you want ok..Thanks
    Regards,
    Miss Jennifer.

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  24. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my husband back to me.. My name is Olivia Phimzile,i live in Florida,USA,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{supremetemple@hotmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same email supremetemple@hotmail.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Dr PAPA for bringing back my husband ,and brought great joy to my family once again. {supremetemple@hotmail.com}, or call +27799527702 Thanks.

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  25. THANKS TO DR BENEDICT FOR SOLVING MY PROBLEMS

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{benedictsolutioncentre@yahoo.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster DR benedict. So.
    So,if you are in a similar problem or any kind of problems you can also contact him via his email(benedictsolutioncentre@yahoo.com}he is the solution to all your problems and predicaments in life.his email again is{benedictsolutioncentre@yahoo.com}.

    HE ALSO SPECIALIZE IN THE THE FOLLOWING PROBLEMS;

    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) If you want to be promoted in your office.
    (3) If you want a child.
    (4) If you want to be rich.
    (5) if you have any sickness like ( H I V/AIDS ),(CANCER) or any sickness
    (6) if you are deaf and blind and you want to see and hear again.

    once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. his email address is(benedictsolutioncentre@yahoo.com}

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  26. HOW I WAS HELPED BY DR OLAWOLE THE GREAT SPELL CASTER
    I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back. I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when I meet a friend that introduce me to DR Olawole the great messenger to the whole world who God has given him the grace to help people in their relationships, I narrated my problem to DR Olawole about how my ex love left me and also how I needed to get a job in a very big company. He only said to me that i have come to the right place were I will be getting my heart desire without any side effect. He told me what i need to do, After it was been done, In the next 2 days, My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness, I was called for an interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director.. I am so happy and overwhelmed that I have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR Olawole at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve. Contact him direct on: ugbeninspellsolutiontemple@gmail.com And get your problems solve like me..... ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: ugbeninspellsolutiontemple@gmail.com I will not stop sharing his name because he done a very great job for me now my mind is full of happiness

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  27. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
    seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014,
    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me....
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
    omozespelltemple@gmail.com of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don't know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn't brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don't
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
    Email: omozespelltemple@gmail.com, or connect him with these number +2348036640164

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